I cheated, have you? Want to talk? m4w
My marriage started falling apart after the birth of our third kid. I was the sole breadwinner AND did most of the household chores worked out in the morning before anyone else got up, then woke the up and got them all showered, made them breakfast and lunch, took them to school picked them up from school, homework, play dates, piano and violin lessons, soccer and play practice, all that. Doctor and dentist appts, parent-teacher conferences.
AND I did all the grocery shopping and laundry. Meanwhile, she slept in till with the newborn and then spent the day surfing the Web and playing PTA volunteer. But I figured she was having a tough time after four , so I gave her some slack. After years and years of this, though, with NO gratitude expressed, much less any indication that she was going to start chipping in again, instead, she began insisting that I wasnt important, that I was taking things too seriously, of course I became resentful.
So, finally, needing to feel important, I put an ad up for someone to talk to, and a woman answered, and we started chatting innocently at first, but then she mentions the pair of pink panties in her purse, and you can imagine how things went from there a few weeks later I was knocking at her apartment door. It was only physical contact, but it sure felt good to have someone WANT you instead of looking out the window, waiting to be done.
And then a couple weeks later another woman answered my post, and we met, and we fell in love at first sight. She made me feel important, she was interested in me, and she was a wonderful, romantic woman, So I had to break it off with the first woman. Weird, huh, how I could cheat on my wife, but I couldnt cheat on the second woman by still seeing the first woman? Even more ironic, the second woman and I didnt even have sex, just a lot of making out.
So thats a bit of my story. Theres more. How about yours?